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How I Use AI to Practice Hard Conversations Before They Happen
There was a conversation I needed to have with another program manager, and I kept not having it. He didn't report to me, he was good at the job, and I didn't want to spend the working relationship badly. So I practiced it first, against a Gem built to play him. It pushed back the way he pushes back, told me exactly where I was hedging, and by the time I sat down with the real person, nothing in it was a surprise. Full prompt at the bottom of the post.

Amy Westlake
Aug 258 min read


How to Use AI to Get Better at Reading a Room
There was one person I just wasn't clicking with, and I couldn't say why. So I did something a little embarrassing: I had AI build a communication profile of me, then one of them, then compared the two side by side. What came back wasn't dramatic. It was just true, and I hadn't sat with it before. Includes the exact prompt I use to build a stakeholder profile from meeting transcripts.

Amy Westlake
Aug 47 min read
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