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How I Use AI to Practice Hard Conversations Before They Happen
There was a conversation I needed to have with another program manager, and I kept not having it. He didn't report to me, he was good at the job, and I didn't want to spend the working relationship badly. So I practiced it first, against a Gem built to play him. It pushed back the way he pushes back, told me exactly where I was hedging, and by the time I sat down with the real person, nothing in it was a surprise. Full prompt at the bottom of the post.

Amy Westlake
Aug 258 min read


The Council in My Head
I used to send my status report after one AI pass and my own read-through. Now five personas argue about it first, the business partner, the executive, the chief of staff, and two more, each built around someone who actually reads the thing. This isn't really about status reports. It's a structure you can point at any output you produce.

Amy Westlake
Jul 115 min read


How I Built a Gem in 20 Minutes (And What I Use It For Every Week)
I built a Gem in twenty minutes to handle a framing problem I'd been fighting for months. That part worked. What I didn't expect was what happened when I started giving it stakeholder feedback — and asking it to improve its own instructions.

Amy Westlake
Jun 163 min read
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